Self-Control

Self-Control

Sometimes you may feel a strong urge to do something, like play video games instead of doing homework or eat candy instead of a healthy meal. Everyone has these feelings, it’s a normal part of being human. Sometimes we want to do fun stuff instead of the things we should be doing. But you should know that it is best to do fun stuff on special occasions or as special treats. 

If you always do the things that seem like more fun, you will never get anything done. It can even make you feel upset instead of happy, like having to do your homework late at night when you’re tired and you have been procrastinating all evening. This is why we have self-control. When you have good self-control, you can do the things that is better for you and those around you. 

How Your Self-Control Affects Others 

Well, how is having self-control good for those around you? It may not seem like all your decisions affect others, but you will often face choices that have an impact on those that depend on you. For example, if you avoid doing your chores because you lack self-control, your chores will build up and may irk those who live with you. Having good self-control allows you to be more dependable and reliable. 

Another part of self-control is mastering your emotions and impulses. Feeling irritated, angry, or frustrated is completely normal, but if you lack self-control, you may vent your feelings on others. For example, if you are frustrated with a martial arts partner who is having trouble with a form, you should always have patience and try to be helpful. However, if you have poor self-control, you may say something out of anger that hurts their feelings. Good self-control allows you to have patience and better communication skills.  

Developing Your Self-Control 

As you get older, you will have to develop better self-control. This means you will be expected to think before you speak or act, and ensure you are always productive and appropriate. You can achieve this self-control by simply taking a moment to think about how your decisions will impact you and those around you in the future. Will a particular choice cause you to be stressed out or late in the future? Then it is best to avoid that choice. Will a particular action hurt those around you because your feelings got the better of you? Then is it best to avoid that action. Good self-control is all about taking a moment to think and choosing the best decisions. 

The Merits of Self-Control

Good self-control has many merits. It allows you to be more productive and use your energy more constructively, so you can create a better future for yourself. This impact can be long-term or short-term, but it will always be better than a decision that is made with poor self-control. It can also allow you to be more personable and easier to work with, so your peers feel more comfortable around you. This means others will enjoy being around you and they will feel like they can depend on you. In the end, good self-control is easy to develop and benefits everyone, so try your best to have more self-control!

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Most frequent questions and answers about our Martial Arts Programs

A specific part of our preschool and kids martial arts classes at Park’s Taekwondo Federation in Coral Springs, Boca Raton, Coconut Creek (East Coral Springs), Plantation, Lake Worth FL is teaching respect, and teaching when to use their new self defense training and when to NOT use them.  We find that our students become more confident to stand up to bullies.  And have more humility and kindness to others though their martial arts lessons.

We encourage parents to watch their children in their kids martial arts lessons.  We love parents getting involved!  And so do their kids.  Even better… join into some of our martial arts classes for adults.   You’re kids will love that you have something in common.  It will build a strong family bond!

Additionally, if you wanted some ‘me-time’?  Simply drop them off, and go grab a coffee.  They will greet you with a huge smile when you return, because they had SO much fun!

No, not at all! 

We find that people start at varying fitness levels.  But, you will find that you do get fit by doing our Coral Springs, Boca Raton, Coconut Creek (East Coral Springs), Plantation, Lake Worth FL martial arts classes.  Isn’t that the point though?

A fun workout that gets results!

Truthfully, the journey to Black Belt is an individual one.  Everyone can progress at a different pace.  There is no judgement on students for how long it does take.  What we can tell you, is that it is SO WORTHWHILE! 

The self defense skills you will master can truly be life-saving!
However, the other benefits of striving for Black Belt, like perseverance, never giving up, commitment and self discipline lead to life-long success.

You will find that your Instructors at Park’s Taekwondo Federation are dedicated to helping you on your journey to Black Belt or whatever your personal goal may be.

We do only have a certain amount of space in our martial arts training area.  To take advantage of our limited time offer…. The fastest way is to fill in form . 

Additionally, you can always call us, we would love to chat with you about what we do, and if our martial arts classes would be a great fit for you and your family!

Simply choose which of our martial arts school locations is best for you:
Coral Springs
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and choose the martial arts program you are interested in.  We’re looking forward to meeting you, and sharing our passion for martial arts with you.

Make sure you wear comfortable clothes you can do sport in!  Not really suitable to practice kicks in a skirt.😳

Be sure to bring a water bottle to your martial arts classes. 

You will find Park’s Taekwondo Federation in Coral Springs, Boca Raton, Coconut Creek (East Coral Springs), Plantation, Lake Worth FL have martial arts classes for kids and adults that are a great workout and lots of fun! 

Most students are grinning from ear to ear by the end of the class.  I am sure you will be too!

Not at all.  In fact, many students starting in our adult martial arts classes would describe themselves like that before they started.  So you will fit right in!

Give yourself some time, and you will be astounded at how much you improve!  You’ll find that our very experienced martial arts Instructors, are trained to keep their teaching simple.  So even the most uncoordinated person will develop ‘ninja-like’ skills!  Come see for yourself!

Yes, our Instructors are very experienced in this new way of learning. We have found students in Coral Springs, Boca Raton, Coconut Creek (East Coral Springs), Plantation, Lake Worth FL and around the country really LOVE our virtual and online classes – as they can keep focussed without distractions of other students and recordings can be paused and rewound for additional clarification on techniques.

We have our in-person classes and online martial arts classes.

Depending on your membership, live streaming martial arts lessons and/or OnDemand recorded lessons are a perfect way for kids and adults to learn martial arts in the comfort of your own home. Some people choose a combination of in-person and online/virtual martial arts lessons in the Coral Springs, Boca Raton, Coconut Creek (East Coral Springs), Plantation, Lake Worth FL area.

Have a chat with one of our Instructors, to find the best solution for your martial arts journey.

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